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Bible verses about friendship

What the Bible says about friendship: what a true friend is, how to love friends well, and verses to send to a friend today. Every verse is from the King James Version, ready to copy into a card or text.

What a true friend is

The Bible's picture of friendship is loyal, honest and steady.

“A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.”
Proverbs 17:17 Make an image

A friend loves at all times, not only when it's easy.

“A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.”
Proverbs 18:24 Make an image

There is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

“Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up.”
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 Make an image

Two are better than one: when one falls, the other lifts them up.

“And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.”
Ecclesiastes 4:12 Make an image

A threefold cord is not quickly broken.

“Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.”
Proverbs 27:17 Make an image

Good friends sharpen each other.

“Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart: so doth the sweetness of a man’s friend by hearty counsel.”
Proverbs 27:9 Make an image

Hearty counsel from a friend is as sweet as perfume.

Friends who tell the truth

Real friendship can handle honesty.

“Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.”
Proverbs 27:6 Make an image

Faithful are the wounds of a friend.

“He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.”
Proverbs 13:20 Make an image

Walk with wise people and you grow wise.

“Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious man thou shalt not go: Lest thou learn his ways, and get a snare to thy soul.”
Proverbs 22:24-25 Make an image

Choose close friends carefully: we tend to learn the ways of the people we spend time with.

“Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.”
1 Corinthians 15:33 Make an image

The company we keep shapes who we become.

How to love your friends well

Practical verses for being a good friend.

“Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.”
John 15:13 Make an image

The greatest love lays down its life for its friends.

“Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.”
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 Make an image

Love is patient and kind, and it bears, believes, hopes and endures all things.

“Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another;”
Romans 12:10 Make an image

Be kindly affectioned and put others first.

“Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.”
Galatians 6:2 Make an image

Bear one another's burdens.

“Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.”
Colossians 3:13 Make an image

Forbear and forgive, as Christ forgave you.

“And above all things have fervent charity among yourselves: for charity shall cover the multitude of sins.”
1 Peter 4:8 Make an image

Fervent love covers a multitude of sins.

“Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others.”
Philippians 2:4 Make an image

Look out for each other's interests, not just your own.

Friendship with God

The friendship every other friendship points to.

“Henceforth I call you not servants; for the servant knoweth not what his lord doeth: but I have called you friends; for all things that I have heard of my Father I have made known unto you.”
John 15:15 Make an image

Jesus calls His followers friends, not servants.

“And the scripture was fulfilled which saith, Abraham believed God, and it was imputed unto him for righteousness: and he was called the Friend of God.”
James 2:23 Make an image

Abraham believed God and was called the Friend of God.

“And the LORD spake unto Moses face to face, as a man speaketh unto his friend. And he turned again into the camp: but his servant Joshua, the son of Nun, a young man, departed not out of the tabernacle.”
Exodus 33:11 Make an image

The Lord spoke with Moses face to face, as a man speaks to his friend.

Verses to send to a friend

Short enough for a text, a card or a birthday message.

“I thank my God upon every remembrance of you,”
Philippians 1:3 Make an image

A ready-made line for a card: you thank God every time you think of them.

“The LORD bless thee, and keep thee: The LORD make his face shine upon thee, and be gracious unto thee: The LORD lift up his countenance upon thee, and give thee peace.”
Numbers 6:24-26 Make an image

A blessing to pray over a friend.

“Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones.”
Proverbs 16:24 Make an image

Pleasant words are sweet to the soul and health to the bones.

“That is, that I may be comforted together with you by the mutual faith both of you and me.”
Romans 1:12 Make an image

Friends of faith encourage each other.

“And Ruth said, Intreat me not to leave thee, or to return from following after thee: for whither thou goest, I will go; and where thou lodgest, I will lodge: thy people shall be my people, and thy God my God:”
Ruth 1:16 Make an image

Ruth's famous words of loyal love to Naomi.

“Wherefore comfort yourselves together, and edify one another, even as also ye do.”
1 Thessalonians 5:11 Make an image

Comfort and build each other up.

Questions people ask

What does the Bible say about friendship?

That a true friend is loyal in hard times (Proverbs 17:17), honest (Proverbs 27:6), helps you up when you fall (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10) and loves sacrificially (John 15:13). It also warns that friends shape who we become (1 Corinthians 15:33).

What is a good Bible verse for a best friend?

Proverbs 18:24 ('a friend that sticketh closer than a brother'), Philippians 1:3 and Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 are popular for cards and messages.

Is Ruth 1:16 about friendship?

Ruth spoke these words to her mother-in-law Naomi. They're often used for close friendships and weddings because they describe loyal, committed love.

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